Lessons from the Sidelines

Karen R. Blake, a brain cancer survivor, gained many crucial life lessons from twenty years of marriage and parenthood. Raising two boys while sustaining a cooperative marriage, Blake’s journey is a testament to the particular gifts of valuable lessons in honing one’s skills through practice, taking initiative, and being a supportive parent. In her book, Lessons from the Sidelines, Blake shares her journey, realizing the wisdom imparted by experiences in organized sports. In sports, as in life, there is value in understanding the dynamics of teamwork, self-sacrifice, and persistence. Parents and children can discern the applicability of adopting and embodying these values in other areas of life outside of team sports.

Lessons from the Sidelines is a quick read for busy parents and professionals, and it contains actionable tips for everyday situations. A handful of photos of Blake’s children in team sports offer the book an intimate feel. This book is relevant for parents and caregivers of young people searching for intention and validation in supporting the children in their care.

As a parent of a grown child, reading Lessons from the Sidelines was a transformative experience. It inspired me to reflect on my motivation to immerse my child in various activities outside school. Blake’s reflections resonated with me, reminding me of the poignant takeaways I had as a parent and how the experience of parenting has shaped and molded my approach to life and leadership.

Whether you’re a parent, a caregiver, or a business professional, Lessons from the Sidelines has something for you. As a business coach, Blake uses familiar, real-life examples of how lessons from team sports can impact success in the workplace. For example, she discusses the benefit of making the first move in life and business while being aware of the uncertainty and potential risks. It suggests seeking guidance from a trusted coach or mentor to increase confidence and understanding of appropriate rules and strategies. In another chapter, Blake underscores the importance of being open to continuous learning. Summer camps, workshops, and watching professionals play a crucial role in helping overcome learning curves. By being exposed to different educational opportunities, individuals can gain new ideas and perspectives, while working with experienced mentors helps acquire the knowledge necessary to execute.

Readers will learn how preparation, determination, and introspection can build character. Blake shares how lessons learned in team sports can make one a better parent, a more reliable volunteer, and an influential colleague in the workplace. Maintaining perspective in competitive environments, such as the business world, was a powerful reminder for me. Blake emphasizes the importance of empathy and support for competitors, highlighting the value of cooperation amid competition. In the end, the true value of winning is attaining peace.